Receiving an invite by mail is extremely personable. It tells you your presence is being requested directly from the host to be in attendance at that particular celebration! It also shows that you've been kept up with! The sender actually has your full name and mailing address! It's a personal invitation for your eyes only and not a list to someones entire database or massive call to all who can attend! So when someone sends you a note via mail they've gone beyond the social call of duty! You're special! If you can't attend there is usually a request for a regrets via return note or phone call.
Traditional invites show thought, expectation and gives you an indication of the feel of the event! There are so many varieties of the personal invitation. Usually made out of some type of specialty paper or card stock but can be made of bottles, plexi-glass, wood, and other objects. Whatever you imagine can be created! An invitation is also the first indication of the type of event you've been invited to. Is it casual or formal? Is this going to be a creative gathering or a traditional fete!
Now don't get me wrong, I love the convenience of evite, punchbowl and pingg, just to name a few. An electronic invite does not carry the same personal touch that a traditional invite does and should not be used for a formal event. Informal gathering at the house...evite! Game time....evite! Small party with cake....evite! Wedding invitations require a stamp.
Take a look at these invites below and see that they relay so much more info than an electronic message!
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Mail the puzzle pieces and let the guests put it together! So fun! |
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Baby Shower Invite. So Cute! |
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Sweet Potato Paper has really nice multicultural invites for all occassions! |
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This record serves notice of the party! |
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This unique invite tell me it's a Vintage Affair! |
Until next time,
Jennifer